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Prelabour whinge
Owww damn that last one was a pretty good one.
Yesterday I had an interesting bout of prelabour that was different from all the other prelabours.
It went all day.
Yes
you may say, as did all the other ones. Well the other ones had the
decency to give me an hour or two break every so often. These ones just
kept cramping and contracting all day. It ranged from slightly
uncomfortable to almost painful.
Today, the same thing happened,
just worse. The cramps were mostly painful, though on occasion I would
get a dull ache. My back is killing me, and apparently firvulag too. The contractions range from uncomfortable to hey that hurt dammit.
Okay, it's starting to piss me off.
Currently
I'm assuming that it's going to hurt like this until something actually
happens, which will piss me right all the way off. Specially seeing as
if this stupid shit keeps going, I probably won't have the energy to
give birth. Not that I need any I guess, if my last birth experience is
anything to go by I'll just jump in the pool and try not to drown as I
expel the baby whether I want to or not. I'd contemplate growing gills
to counteract the whole drowning thing but I'm not sure that I want all
the blood and crap that will be in the water clogging my breathing
apparatuses.
Then there is a chance it might be actual proper
prelabour that will develop into labour, and if so I would like some
clearer indication of this. Like waters breaking for example. Although
that's not completely reliable as who knows when that could happen,
might happen as it's starting, or well into it, or as the baby's being
born.
Yay different kinds of pain again! After a reprieve where I
was thinking the cramps have settled down (and thus proving it was just
irritating prelabour that wasn't going to go anywhere) I end up with
some back crunching hip jolting something or other. Nyeh. Not amused.
Onto happier things
Josh and I have decided to jump on the "let's have unrealistically high expectations of our kids!" bandwagon.
No
not really. Trying to figure out the whole unschooling thing, and
planning our impending trip to Christmas Island, we decided to get him
some workbooks. So I grabbed these "Excel" brand 3-4 yo workbooks, only
the English ones though coz we were in a bit of a hurry and I didn't
see any maths ones (which were probably in their own set further along
coz the English and Maths books come in sets of 10 it seems). Might
grab the maths books and possibly the handwriting book at a later date,
like when I'm Christmas shopping with mum (can about guarantee that will
happen).
No we don't actually expect him to do them (bonus if he
can and does), it's something for him to colour in on the plane and who
knows, he may well surprise us.
Think I might have to get him a
new box of crayons though, he's successfully managed to break or lose
the crayons we bought him last year. No real surprise there, I wasn't
expecting them to last.
I wonder how age groups work here
actually. At compulsory schooling age they easily chop out the kids in
the second half of the year by saying they have to be in school or
registered for homeschooling by the last Friday of the February of the
year they turn 6 years and 6 months, which is 2011 for Tao, unless I
miscounted in my currentl stupid state. Not so sure for kindy and
preprimary though. If they work on a "year they turn" case then
technically Tao is eligible for "3 year old kindy" next year as it's the
year he turns 3, even though technically he'll be 2 next year because
he turns 2 at the end of this year. Matter of slight curiousity anyway
coz we won't be sending him.
Pain is bugging me again but it's
nearly 1am, Josh has an early start tomorrow, we're both sleep deprived
and I should probably try to get some Zs in seeing as I have absolutely
no idea in anywhere you care to name when the small one will decide to
put in an appearance.
Under current conditions presuming the
worseness increases in the current increments, I am very confident of
surviving til the end of the month.
Beyond that I think I'll kill me.